Chapter 6 : The dynamics:

The dynamics of an abusive relationship are often shrouded in a complex web of emotions, with the abuser's obsession playing a pivotal role. This fixation is typically twofold, with the abuser being equally enamored with themselves and their victim. Their self-absorption is so profound that they fail to recognize the inherent ugliness of their behavior, often justifying or rationalizing their actions as a means of maintaining control.